| You touch my heart... I think in live, we go through phases. Once my best friend told me my ex, lied to me for six years and both of them stop talking to me. It was a huge disorienting dilemma. It implied a lot of suffering, even desires of committing suicide. Then I started to do tens of therapies of different types, meditations of different types, studied psychology and physiatry and overall, I think all the experience was profit. But was difficult. Right now, I think is really difficult to change the way we see live from a comfort zone, as there is no incentive for the brain to change that values. Being said that, we can improve behaviour from the comfort zone. Not the values. Coming back to your comment, after your best friend and your girlfriend betray you, all the trust schemes are destroyed, and any partner that I found... fears kick in, and I ran away. So I decide to stop trying to have a partner, and let my brain to do its magic, and decide for me when I should fall in love. |