[CodeWriter23]

One more thing. A lot of people talk about "letting go". A wise man once told me he didn't know much about letting go, but he was real good at leaving things alone.

[groby_b]

Trust me, if you leave alone instead of letting it go - you'll revisit. Over. And over. And over.

And it's going to be a little bit worse every single time. Find closure.

[CodeWriter23]

That hasn't been my experience. I think the key is, letting go isn't a conscious act.