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by abelhabel
3301 days ago
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This is my experience as well. I am from Scandinavia and now living in Canada and I have only met a handful of individuals who do not interrupt others while speaking. Unlike you I tell them to shut up, which is the way it is where I come from but doesn't translate well. Furthermore, I have never seen any american interviewer not interrupting their subjects. This is my bias, so I never see sexism nor racism in this context. I only see idiots who think more of themselves than they should. In this particular case and in regards to sexism, however, the voice that should be listened to most, in my opinion, is the voice of the subject. If we don't consider her voice the most important voice we put her in the subaltern and that is the worst position you can have. The subaltern being women in the context of patriarchal history. The person who said 'Let her speak please.', should also be heard, regardless of her motives. The interviewers should shut up and let their subjects speak at all times, so we need more of this social courage. |
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I would find it very odd to save a string of questions until the end.
It's much more fun to engage in the conversation actively.
I'm not saying control the conversation. Good conversationalists listen more than they speak.
But having fun in a conversation is engaging in it. Not replying paragraph after paragraph, in my opinion.