1. Widen your options
2. Reality-test your assumptions
3. Attain distance before deciding
4. Prepare to be wrong
The heath brothers offer a useful workbook[1] that goes into details for each of these steps. It might be worthwhile to go through it as you decide.
[0] http://heathbrothers.com/books/decisive/
[1] http://heathbrothers.com/ot/wp-content/uploads/2013/03/HBDWB...
Unless by reality testing you mean testing tour perception and prediction against perception and prediction of reality that is.
Unless by reality testing you mean testing tour perception and prediction against perception and prediction of reality that is.