[grzm]

I'm not sure I follow. People often behave differently depending on the context (e.g., work, home, school, out with friends), so acting differently on different sites doesn't seem very surprising. Also, different sites have different, though perhaps overlapping, populations, so the "average" behavior or culture is going to be different.

One example (mentioned in the HN guidelines) is Reddit. There are people who frequent both HN and Reddit, yet it's clear that members on HN—even those who use Reddit as well—don't want HN and Reddit to be the same. As such, they behave differently on each site. That's not to say one is better than any other: they're just different.

And HN members don't act as one—just as they don't act as one on any other site. If they did, your comment would have been downvoted to the point that it was flagged dead (given it's likely been seen by hundreds, if not thousands) or not flagged at all. Given it's current shade of gray, I suspect you've received only a few downvotes. (Edit to add: I see you did say it is at -2.)

Does that make sense? Or am I misreading you?

Anyway, this is quite off-topic now. I posted these in the hopes of providing a bit more insight into the HN community. I hope they've been more helpful than frustrating.

[combatentropy]

Thank you. No, you're not misreading me. I guess like you say, it could be worse than -2. (Although now it's at -3!)

I don't frequent Reddit. It sounds like it's so jocular that people come here to get away from it all.