[creepydata]

The kids blow the wealth more often than not and the grandkids spend every last dime of what the kids couldn't.

http://time.com/money/3925308/rich-families-lose-wealth/

(That's ignoring the fact that people who grow up 'set for life' tend to be truly terrible human beings)

[nunez]

who cares what happens when you're dead

[creepydata]

Well if your goal is to "help out the grandkids in life" you should probably know leaving them your fortune is going to do the opposite.

[nunez]

well if i were in that situation, the way i would see it is "i did my part; my grandkids got money and i showed them how to use it." if they blow it all on cars and drugs, that's on them