[jakobegger]

It sounds like you have no respect for your partner(s). In the comment above you said they weren't attractive; in this comment you said that what they like to do is meaningless.

If you want to live in a long term relationship, you need to stop comparing your partner to some arbitrary idea of what women should be like.

Respect your partner, and try to see the world from their point of view. Different things are "meaningful" to different people. Don't get stuck on whatever you consider to be your values.

Instead of dismissing your partners habits, try to learn more about them. Learn why they like going to the beauty salon, ask them what it's like, find out why this is meaningful to them.