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by throway_bayarea 3323 days ago
Do you live in a big city? If so, the key is to get out of the crowd/competition. I'd recommend you search at a 50-100 mile radius from where you live. Drive away, make friends outside of town and go hang out with them. Girls are so much better outside of the cities, less buddy-like, less self-centric. More family oriented and also they won't play any game. Plenty of pretty chicks in the middle of nowhere you'll be surprised. Also, you'll be the outsider in the group. The guy who comes once in a while which will make you more attractive and more desirable. Put your self in the right spot, it's that simple.
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> Drive away, make friends outside of town

It sounds like an alien concept in my culture (just making friends with perfect strangers in a town you don't even live in ). I suspect it's different in the US. How would you go about it?

A lot of people in the US have no problem meeting with strangers when they first move to a new city.

How to meet girls at a 50-100 mile radius? It depends on your hobbies. Music, sports, etc. Nothing stops you from joining a club, a band, a team 50 miles away from your house. You need an entry point and you'll easily make new friends. It's a logical thing, it's easier to make progress when you start from scratch than when you're already up there. Plus, they know you don't know anyone around so they'll take initiatives and invite you to join their parties. You don't have to do anything basically just accept or refuse their invites. It's a natural thing to bring in someone new instead of watching a friend of a friend trying to stick in a party. And again, girls already know all the dudes around, you'll be the center of attention... girls will turn towards you not the same exact dudes they see every day.

Thanks!