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by bkkssnn
3318 days ago
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>This is what happens when your parents get divorced and you're raised by a shitty step mom No, this happens when you accept that you are a victim and declare that you have zero control over your emotional shortcomings because of a past event. And it will continue to happen aslong as you reinforce this in yourself. |
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It's not about identifying yourself as the victim etc., it's about identifying patterns that you're not even aware of.
My comment was now in retrospect - I didn't even at the time consider my childhood to be especially bad until after therapy.
This post is riddled with misunderstanding and you have provided a classic example.