[abalashov]

One of the marriages was in a traditional culture (where I have family roots; not _entirely_ what you've got in mind), so I'm the first to say that's not a magic solution. But at least the problem there was framed more explicitly and recognised for what it was. Here in America, it gets lost in a fog of individualistic "nonjudgmental" received truth.

[geppeto]

ah, I see, the real point is isolated to the flaws in American culture for cohabitation.

I can agree with you there, as the differences can grow without being addressed.

[abalashov]

Not sure I follow.