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by thatwebdude 3334 days ago
I bet the decision to have kids was your wife's.

I'm glad you're coming to terms with it.

Sorry, that was just a very passive-agressive read.

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No, it was a joint decision. I just figured I'd be more-or-less like my dad, who loves being a dad. It never struck me that it might be something I really struggle with.

Overall, it was the right decision for us. But there are definitely valleys along with the peaks.