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by tom_ilsinszki
5856 days ago
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FYI, I'm 26; anyway here is my advice. * Don't focus on the goal: You might set some big goals, but don't focus on them too much (focus on the process instead and probably you'll be happy with the outcome). * Change slowly: Monitor yourself, summarize what you did each day and try to change things one at a time. Changes that need time to take effect cannot be made quickly (the same way it's not a good idea to adjust water temperature quickly while you're showering). * Know yourself: Know your limits, and what makes you tick. Monitor yourself and your friends. Figure out why those people are your friends. (It helps to understand yourself better). What are your weaknesses, what are strengths? Hint: what are the things you enjoyed doing when you were a little kid? Try to find activities / work that's similar to that. * Learn from others: Get to know people, who you respect, and are smarter than you; learn from them. (Also a great way to keep your ego checked) * Remember to spend time with your loved ones. Do it for them, and for you. |
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