[InclinedPlane]

Oh? Perhaps that is an illusion. Competitiveness drives people to pursue unrealistic goals and adopt questionable priorities, often at the cost of personal happiness, satisfaction, and personal health. Their driven to "win" useless victories at the cost of developing corrosive personalities that makes it more difficult for them to be enjoy life, build valuable friendships, and find meaningful love (romantic or otherwise). People are driven to hurt themselves by exercising beyond their body's limits. They're driven to waste their lives working for others at work of questionable value while sacrificing their own happiness, personal development, families, and relationships.

There is a value to competitiveness but only if it's kept in check and allowed to operate in service to, rather than in replacement of, goals of self-actualization, self-betterment, happiness, kindness, etc.

It does make sense to tell people to question what society is forcing down their throats. How will society change otherwise?