[Mz]

In other settings, chicken and egg problems are sometimes solved via backwards compatibility. So, in other words, if you already have a thing people go to, you build your other thing on top of that, basically.

From what I have read, clubs do "ladies night" because men are the ones who will show up anyway. It is the women you need to somehow get to show up. This seems to also be the case for dating. For example, women over a certain age do very poorly in most online dating sites. People are people, whether online or off. The same general trends that impact dating offline also influence dating online.

So, perhaps ask yourself why the women would want to show up? If you can answer that question, you may have an edge over other dating sites.