[pepeto]

I think what you said hits the sweetspot. I understand not to give advice until I am asked for, but I just never realized that someone coming to tell me a problem != 'i want a help'

huge heads up, thanx!

And why would someone not want a solution? yet to figure this one out...

[soyelmango]

Just stumbled across this... "Male answer syndrome" - tongue-in-cheek, but certainly has some truth in it... http://www.wordspy.com/words/maleanswersyndrome.asp