[hawkweed]

I completely understand you, because I'm in the same boat. It's hard to tell what is the right approach. I think that people should be tested. I'm still afraid to do that because I'm 31 years old and already started to experience some symptoms.

Yes, it's not easy decision but if you are not tested you can ruin life of your partner. It's better to prevent passing this terrible disease to your children.

Anyhow, 23andMe cannot tell you whether you have HD or not because they don't have sequences for that.