[phlakaton]

I presumed from his post that he had actually developed with the framework in question. In which case, he is a user of the framework, and, as far as I'm concerned, a customer to the developers of the framework.

Unless you have evidence to the contrary...?

> Nobody should just bend over for someone...

There is a world of difference between being assertive (which is fine) and being dismissive and belittling (which is not). Mr. Haitzler went way over the line. He thought that tit for tat was appropriate. It is not.

By the way, given the rather suggestive way you phrased this, you might want to check your own use of sexualized comments before criticizing someone else's.