[patricia]

I have the opposite being a woman. The men I date always think I am not into them because I never have time for them.

What I tell my friends who have this issue with their husbands is that a good life requires that much work, that if you want a guy who can make sure he can give your kids a nice school and take the family to Hawaii every year, this is what it takes. There is not one person I know who is successful that's not working a lot.

Also try to live in slivers -- sneak away little bits of time to hang out when you can, even if it's an hour. Make it special.

What has worked for me has been to date men who are also founders.