Hacker News new | ask | show | jobs
by nostrademons 3382 days ago
One thing I've always been curious about is why folks are so afraid of being judged. Most people are judging you all the time, yet recognizing this fact causes a lot of people intense anxiety. I'd rather look at it as a selection filter: if someone doesn't like you or doesn't want to work with you, that's a strong signal that you'd be better off not spending any more energy on them, and instead focusing on the folks who do like you & want to work with you.