[edblarney]

These are possibly fair gripes, but they're not at all uncommon in the rest of the world, even outside of tech.

'My manager doesn't respect me'. Well ... my bet is that 20% of the entire world feels this way.

'Banned from other offices'?

Most companies have many offices and they usually expect people to work primarily from their own workspace.

I worked in a fortune 50 with many offices and I was not allowed to work remotely or from some other building, unless meetings etc. That said, maybe the rule is applied unfairly? But it's conceivably entirely within the managers authority to do that.

As for the 'tank top' ... that one's tricky. But no female in my F50 work experience ever wore a tank top. There was no dress code, they just didn't do it. There are many places wherein it definitely would not be allowed. That's a tricky one ... I think it would have mostly to do with what was 'the norm' a the company, and what role is being played, in what context. But yeah, it's tricky.