[chillacy]

Politeness too. There are some cultures which are extremely blunt, no diplomacy or being indirect. For instance just going into a meeting and saying that someone's idea is dumb and they should do it X way instead. Most americans I know perceive this as "being a dick", but this is pretty normal discourse where they come from.

[gragas]

That sounds so much better.

[chillacy]

I'm still not used to it, but I can see the appeal. Try working with Germans or especially Israelis