[gkya]

> things I do in private

When you let it be recorded and the recording be possessed by someone else, it's practically public, as you can't control what'll happen in future and there will always be mean people that'll try to bully you for that sort of thing. I'm sad that it's caused you harm, but I guess in such situations showing confidence might work.

[emodendroket]

Would you respond the same way to someone whose spouse emptied out their bank accounts and ran off?

[gkya]

Well, first of all I did not mean to offend the person I responded to. Sorry if that came off that way. About your comment, well, frankly, if you're sharing sensitive things like bank accounts and intimate recordings, prudence is key. One has to make sure what they give access to. And I said that the suffering side in this kind of situations should be assertive about the fact that they are innocent. IDK what is wrong about that.

[matz1]

How is this different, there are always this risk when one share back account.

[emodendroket]

That it's not so different is my point.