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by YeGoblynQueenne
3413 days ago
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I don't know what nature has to do with anything- is it any different for
people in Africa, than in the UK, where I live? Over here men are expected to
help with all the house chores - dishes, cleaning up, washing, you name it.
And that includes taking care of the children. For instance, it's very common
to see lone dads out with their toddlers in a pram, or a sling around their
neck. >> The split of roles is mostly a necessary evil in our part of the world. Yeah, sorry but I don't believe that. If you want to say that there's a great
deal of social reform that's needed before women and men have the same
opportunitites in life, and there's no reason to "split roles" so that women
stay at home and do the washing and men go to work, then fine. But that it's
"necessary" anywhere, I don't accept that. It's no more necessary in Ghana,
than it is in the UK. And btw, I'm an immigrant to the UK. I'm originally from Greece which is a
very traditional country, so I'm very familiar with the alleged social
necessity of keeping women home with their washing machines. It doesn't make
sense in Greece, it doesn't make sense in the UK, and I'm pretty sure it's
just an excuse in Ghana also. |
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> I'm very familiar with the alleged social necessity of keeping women home with their washing machines.
I think you missed the point where I mentioned it was her choice to stay at home and take care of the kids.
No where did I try to advance an argument to keep women at home with their washing, rather, I tried to explain that for most people, they have no choice, and this lack of choice doesn't mean they should continue to do it manually.
You speak about it being an excuse. Again, basing this on your reality. One that has only experienced western culture and life styles.
In a region where much of the population is poor, and the only jobs available to them are hard and laborious with long hours, you have no option but to leave that kind of work to the men.
So yes, it is indeed a necessity to many of these people to split their roles and not just an excuse to lord it over the women as you try to make it sound. The reason this is difficult to end is due to the difficulty in ending the underlying cause itself, mostly poverty.