[fpig]

You find such people in software development circles? I haven't met a single one so far.

Sure, there are plenty of people who are unaccomplished otherwise so they treat raising a child (something the majority of the population succeeds in doing) as the pinnacle of human achievement. But I have never worked with someone like that. In my experience these people usually don't work at all...

[doodyhead]

I work directly with two software engineers who have kids. One behaves exactly like that, the other is completely different and reasonable.