He asked for alternative websites. You gave him the same kind of response he's getting on Stack Overflow that's prompting him to seek alternatives in the first place.
And the answer is the alternatives all suck because they are filled with people asking rubbish questions. If you want a community of people ready to help you, maybe consider putting in enough effort to make them helping you easier.
I highly disagree. His suggestion was helpful and not at all condescending. It could be wrong, or incomplete (there may be another reason why OP isn't getting traction), but that is very different from getting dumped on.