| > my commute takes 90 min The long commute in itself is not good for your health and a good reason to change jobs or negotiate some remote/home working. If your team is offshore, do you need to be at the office every day? > I have no personal life, no hobbies, no interests. I can't remember when I laughed last time A definite indication it's time to change. > manager, who just makes excuses every time we discuss and shows false hope Sounds like not much chance of moving forward in your current job. > Should I continue the job and see how it pans out? As you are an experienced tech professional in the US I think you will have no problems finding a position that aligns more with your life goals. Have you searched/applied/interviewed for any other roles? If so, have you had any offers or responses? What about looking for Software Dev Manager or Architect positions at other companies closer to your home or with remote working options? |