[mikekchar]

Not the OP, but given that English is historically gender biased, I find it pretty easy to unconsciously fall into the trap of using a gender biased turn of phrase. Even if one is consciously trying to avoid such things, our messy neural nets being what they are, mistakes happen.

Given the almost certainty (in my mind anyway), that the OP meant no disrespect to people who identify with genders that are not male, it would make me very happy indeed if requests for correction could be made in a respectful way. Simply asking something like "Would you mind using the alternative phrasing 'blah blah blah'" would go a long way towards helping everyone to maintain a civil tone.