[xemoka]

Grindr isn't the only thing in the world reducing sex to a commodity, that happened long before Grindr showed up in the scene. Same with predators; when was the last time you went to a basement gaybar?

You put monogamy on a pedestal as if everyone should prescribe to your world views, perhaps they don't?

[Traubenfuchs]

Nothing reduces sex more to a commodity than a catalog of abs tagged with top/bottom/vers.

I am happy for everyone who is sex positive and enjoys Grindr to it's fullest though, but I believe Grindr is reducing the gay population's interest in monogamous relationship which is what I am looking for.

Yes I put monogamy on a pedestal, but I am aware that the majority of gay men do not or seemingly outright reject monogamy.