I don't think we do. The only evidence I have that other people are conscious is by analogy; because I assume that whatever conscious is, I am, and other people seem like me.
You've skipped my point though, I'm saying that your definition of conscious isn't a useful articulation of the difference, so of course it doesn't yield a satisfying result.
Then compare the life's work of Picasso to the life's work of most cats. Art is evocative. Cats poop a lot.
Then compare the life's work of Picasso to the life's work of most cats. Art is evocative. Cats poop a lot.