[tedmiston]

It sounds like you have a pretty good idea what your next steps are already.

First, talk to a health professional who can understand and address the nuances of your situation better than anyone on HN.

Second, just consider that there is no perfect tech stack and most people don't know all of the pieces to a company's stack when they join. Perhaps there is a certain language or framework you're passionate about. I would encourage you to seek out companies using that one piece of tech through AngelList, Stack Overflow Jobs, etc.

A third thing to consider is that once you have some experience on paper, it's a huge boost for your next job. Side projects count too.