[benevol]

> The problem is keeping your IP off of all the major blacklists.

I run several email servers, and this is NOT the problem. You just need to configure things correctly. It's not 1996 anymore, you need to set up things like DKIM, SPF, etc. Also make sure your hosting provider has not sold you an IP that was previously used by a spammer. [0]

That's all there is to your "problem".

Besides that: Your solution to Google's insane domination is to put even more of your life on their servers? When we know thanks to Snowden that Google is part of the NSA's PRISM mass surveillance program? Surrendering is not what winners do.

[0] Simply run a Blacklist Check here: http://mxtoolbox.com/supertool.aspx

[SturgeonsLaw]

I completely agree, especially with your "defeatism is doing your opponent's work for them" viewpoint, but if your goal is keeping information off the big provider's systems, then it's not gonna leave you with many people to email...