[smoyer]

"But learn the skill of forgiveness

Not for them but for yourself."

Then in the next sentence she says she'll never forgive "him".

A huge part of being both independent and successful is to constantly be moving forwards. Forgiveness is in fact emotionally "for you", but you need to actually let go. I see no indication that this author has actually broken free of any of the entitlement she lamented early in the piece. But maybe a whiny piece on failure is good for views? Everyone come and see the train-wreck so I can get some impressions!