[apatters]

Since your response to him contained a racist stereotype which you used to justify not engaging in further dialogue, I certainly hope you do change your viewpoint in the future. I continue to be baffled by this idea that it's okay to use racist stereotypes against whites but not anyone else.

The common denominator of all your discussions with emotional white middle class guys is you...

[cpbotha]

I'm posting these links as someone else with an open mind might take the time to read and absorb them:

* http://www.nytimes.com/2015/02/24/opinion/research-shows-whi... * http://everydayfeminism.com/2015/11/lessons-white-privilege-... * http://www.huffingtonpost.com/deborah-foster/a-guide-to-whit...

(there are many more good resources -- the bottom-line is that if you're white, you have been privileged by that fact. What you do with this knowledge is of course up to you.)

You can keep on insulting my person, but instead my suggestion is that you read as much as you can about this important topic.

P.S. here's more on women (another non-white-and-male group) having to suffer online abuse:

* http://theconversation.com/abuse-of-women-on-twitter-no-quic... * http://www.huffingtonpost.co.za/entry/twitter-harassment-wom... * https://www.washingtonpost.com/world/europe/twitter-apologiz...

Denying that online abuse is a massive problem is not defensible, especially when you are comfortably outside of the targeted groups.

[cocktailpeanuts]

See you're not listening. The previous person told you that you were assuming someone's race (actually it's not even race, you were assuming the gender as well), and you're just talking about your little links you found online.

It's ridiculous how you're talking about "open mind" when you're so closed off that you don't even realize you're the exactly the problem you're trying to defeat.

No one is denying that online abuse is a massive problem.

The point is that behaviors like yours--not even realizing how much of an offensive statement you're making online--is the core of all problems that you're claiming to help solve. If you really care about this, ask around people with open mind if what you said here is acceptable.

[cpbotha]

You have clearly not read the links I posted. Doing so would contribute positively to your development.

The fact that you're a HackerNews user, means that you're most probably white and male. That's not racist, it's statistics, as I made clear from the very start.

So cocktailpeanuts, my username here is my real name. I connect my real identity to this whole discussion. Why don't you do so too?

[cocktailpeanuts]

Still trying to preach others, are we?

"The fact that you're a HackerNews user, means that you're most probably white and male. That's not racist, it's statistics."

=> Assuming someone is of certain gender and certain race, based on the environment is the most sexist and racist thing you can say. Again, you don't seem to realize how asshole of a behavior that is, but let's take some time to imagine if the OP was a black woman, and some guy on a forum says "You're most probably (I say that in the statistical sense) a white middleclass guy (I am too BTW)." hahaha I don't even know where to start.

Heres what you can do next:

1. Maybe wonder if there's something wrong with yourself when you claim to want to help these people who are affected by racism and sexism, when everyone on this thread is telling you you're the one who's being racist and sexist. Kinda ironic, right?

2. Or keep doing your thing. People call that "hipster wannabe activism". It may blow your mind but "hipster activism" is actually a thing. Read this article: http://www.yeshacallahan.com/is-hipster-activism-the-new-act... Yup that sounds pretty much like you, exactly down to the behavior of sharing all the links for awareness and trying to preach.

I know I'm being harsh, and maybe you are actually a nice guy, just misguided. People can get excitied about something they recently learned, especially if they believe it's the right thing. Hopefully you will actually try going through this thread and read what other people are telling you and giving a serious thought on if your approach is the right way.