[Mithaldu]

Well, included in not being asked is also that you weren't told when you'd be listened to. With oDesk you know exactly when since it only happens when you push the button. There are no surprises involved, as opposed to the DDR where you could wake up to your door being kicked in because a week ago someone two tables over in the pub heard you gripe.

[triplesec]

This reinforces the impression that you have a very low bar for autonomy and freedom from the panopticon.

[Mithaldu]

Nah, just your lack of knowledge about private/work life separation. :)