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(Personal story, by no means a reference)

I started by looking up how MVC frameworks function. Then made my own little framework in PHP. It was crappy, full of architecture/security/design/performance issues. But I learned a lot.

Then I picked up Symfony and Laravel (both PHP) with those you can make decent code, because they force you to.

After that I picked Node and Sails.js looked a lot like Laravel.