[optimuspaul]

I don't think you can say what is scarier for another person.

[matt_wulfeck]

What's the difference than someone saying it is scarier? This reasoning "only people who are X can say what it's like to be X" makes no logical sense.

[vertex-four]

"Needles are scary."

Well, actually... no, I don't find needles scary.

To be scared is an emotional response, and you can't really tell pother people what their emotions are.