I'm not sure what you are suggesting. There is no getting around "at most/at least once." You can shift the posts, some, but at some point that is your choice. This is a good read on the problem: http://bravenewgeek.com/you-cannot-have-exactly-once-deliver...
"Exactly once delivery" is not the same as "One message at a time". Akka Actors process one message at a time. Akka does no provide exactly once delivery. It default defaults to "at most once".