[gaius]

OK, but if you're a girl, you'd be using "an approach" as well, except you wouldn't call it that. You'd just call it "wearing a push-up bra". It's a complete fallacy to think that manipulating the opposite sex by presenting an idealized version of yourself is anything new, or anything exclusive to males.

[random_guy]

The issue lays in what exactly are the 'idealised versions' that women actually like.