[c0achmcguirk]

Thanks for the insights, I've must have understood the expression differently.

I did find references to the contrary like [1] where the interpretation I've always had is expressed. Why are you so certain?

[1] http://www.city-data.com/forum/relationships/1064051-what-do...

[hueving]

Those references all seem to be negative as well. Which one do you think agrees with you?