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If guy understand that women needs this he can manage to listen and not give advices, and to not become frustrated with all these "unsolvable" problems.

This is a matter of points of view - for men (esp. programmers) problem solving POV is the default, but they can switch to just listening from time to time, if the women doesn't charge them responsible for these problems.

It works the other way too - if some "on the spot advice" slips from me when I listen to my wife she shouldn't be angry - I didn't meant to dismiss her, sometimes I just can't help it.

A little understanding and everything is much simpler.