[FuNe]

It is a really weird situation (I'm trying to put myself in your friends position). I guess I'd revert into this BS nice talk as a way to help you emotionally (even though I know it's BS).

So -assuming that I do care and that situation makes me sad- what am I supposed to say? How could I really help?

[graeme]

A big hug, if they're the kind of person who likes hugs and you're close enough to hug. And not hiding your sadness while doing so.

Or "I'm sorry to hear that. Is there anything I can do?"

Or any general statement of empathy. I've been in a similar situation, and those were the best replies.

But everyone is different, so I'd ask a few more people what were good responses. Probably whatever multiple people mention is a good answer.

[thaumasiotes]

> Or "I'm sorry to hear that. Is there anything I can do?"

> Or any general statement of empathy. I've been in a similar situation, and those were the best replies.

In a similar vein, "that sucks" seems appropriate.