[cauterized]

Nope, one more source of guilt over things not done or not done well (because my time and energy are not infinite, dammit!) is the last thing I need.

Which is not to say I couldn't use a life coach. But I could use one more in the almost-a-therapist sense of someone to talk to about problems and decisions and help me find solutions that are right for my specific personality and other life factors. That's not the same as a nag-bot - even a smart nag-bot.