[throwaway1979]

I've lived in both the Bay area and NYC. I can tell you the culture in NYC is very strong and hard to match. My spouse and I often look back fondly at the fun times we had in NYC. Chicago also has a very fun vibe depending on where you are. The Bay area is weak in that department IMHO.

[seanmcdirmid]

I lived in Beijing for the last 9 years and had lots of fun, but am looking forward to going back to the west coast in a couple of weeks to live a comfortable productive family life. I guess it depends on what you are looking for.