Last time I saw this on HN it was something like an art professor who'd been storing pictures of cherubs or something and it had tripped Google's child-porn detector.
I use fastmail.com for electronic mail, and I gladly pay for it.
Marvel at the simplicity: you pay for a service, and the provider's incentive is to serve you!
This versus the alternative where you use a "service" provided free of cost, and the "provider" makes money by selling data they have harvested from your interactions. You give away your privacy; you have no reason to expect support; you are not actually the customer.
It looks like your problem is you discussed your account closure with people who don't work at Google and can't get any information about your account instead of using the official form (https://support.google.com/accounts/contact/disabled2). One of the people you talked to pointed you to the official form. Did you try it? Unless the official form also doesn't work, your conclusion appears invalid.
The absolute lack of customer support for Gmail made me switch to Fastmail a couple of years ago. I use my own domain now, so if I ever become unhappy with Fastmail I'm not locked in.
Email is so vital to my personal life and my business that it is worth paying 50 bucks a year.
If you are paying you can use Gmail for Work which is a paid service which comes with 24/7 phone support.
However like any service when it comes to your business read the TOS and the contract very well.
Basing your business on "free" services is never a good idea, a paid contract usually gives you some sort of protection and better terms than "provided as is".
I could use an ISP (or in my case university) email, but I'll lose access to that in the future when I change ISPs (or graduate).
I could use <other free email provider>, but they will probably have the same problem, and unless I'm using one of the other giant services (e.g. outlook) are probably more likely to disappear than Google is to randomly ban me.
I could use a paid provider, but they are probably still more likely to disappear in the future than google is likely to randomly ban me.
Instead I would prepare to mitigate the damage of losing access to your account. Have local copies of emails, don't use two factor authentication with one factor being email.
This part I dont get about Google they ban you but don't tell you why. At least they should make a chart of offences of 1-5 and put different offences in the chart according to severity of offence. So when banning you they can say for this number it won't mean much to rest of the world but the person getting banned could probably guess why.
I use Yandex Mail For Domain https://domain.yandex.com which is free with the exact same features regular Yandex.Mail has (“unlimited” mailbox size, Yandex.Disk, letters up to 30 MB in size). By default you can create up to 1000 mailboxes per domain but if you state why you need more they can lift the limit. There is DKIM support. They do have one weird restriction though. I have no access to abuse@ and spam@ mailboxes since they use these for spam reports.
What's far more interesting is that their tech support actually answers. It may take a day or three but they do talk back.
Backup Emails is easy, just set up auto-forwarder to Yahoo Mail or Hotmail. But losing the Google Account, you won't even able to login some single sign-on services.
(A paid provider might make them too, but has more incentive to care and fix them. + I suspect they actually have less automatic abuse filtering, because free offerings are more vulnerable to that)
It's a good point thought. I use Gmail as my primary email for quite a few things, and my other email is also a free service. What am I to do if I need support for either of these?
Mail is the lingua franca of the Internet. There are many, many alternatives to just getting an account with one of the handful of well-known huge providers and being locked in to whatever they want to do to you afterwards.
Just about any ISP will provide the necessary servers to send and receive electronic mail.
Plenty of hosting services will let you keep your own mail store in a remote, always-on location.
Either of these also works fine with your own domain with any decent provider, and either costs a modest amount to run for something so important and useful.
If you are limiting your options to a specific type of webmail service then of course you're going to be stuck with whatever downsides that comes with, but that's far from your only option.
If there are no good providers, you can always set up your own¹², or hire an engineer to do this for you.
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¹) On a leased hardware, network and address, but with proper backup and failover strategies, hosting providers are interchangeable (or one can always host on their own hardware) and it's somewhat less likely ICANN or your local registrar would yank your domain name registration than Google would do so to your account.
Fastmail seems to be getting a lot of love. I like mailbox.org (from Germany, so maybe not the fastest in US). There are many providers of hosted Exchange or other Groupware, at least some of them have to be good.
At this point, that's a well-known psychological bias.
Gmail is a large-scale impersonal system / organization. In every other walk of life, we see such large organizations making mistakes, for essentially inscrutable reasons.
Why would Gmail / Google be any different? The onus is on you to show that, rather than the OP to prove he's above reproach / faultless.
https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=2810946