Sure, though that only starts after pre-k and k, which tends to be much cheaper.
Anyway, if you compare starting a family with ~1M in the bank and 1 income at 50k vs. dual income 220k in the valley and no savings outside of home equity there are benefits on both sides.
This is an outlier and, in my opinion, not representative of any useful demographic for this discussion. The idea that you bank $100k a year (let's even through in compounding) is certainly feasible, but not common.