[mahyarm]

Now? Go shop around ESO fund, snow ventures, standard VCs, angels, etc and ask them to make a deal to help buy out your stock. If they say no, maybe your company isn't doing as well as you think it is or your company is too small.

Usually these founders give you the standard 90 day agreement and are not Uber-level aggressive in trying to prevent these kinds of deals.

Later? Don't work for those companies or do the math. If you get RSUs then it's somewhat equivalent to getting those 10 year options anyway.