[viraptor]

> For some reason they refuse to believe that some things are more interesting to women than men and vice versa.

It could be that this is just as wrong as the "only hostility is the problem". Not everybody sees the same barriers. Not everyone faces the same challenges. We don't even know if/what's more interesting, because we're bombarded with ideas of what should be more interesting since very young age. Software engineers I know successfully raise girl geeks for example.