[vanderZwan]

Ouch. As if it's a chore instead of a privilege to get to do so!

Well, luckily my story had a happy ending: my colleagues (who were checking the assignments with me) stood up for me, and after the course other students defended me by saying "finally, a teacher willing to call out the freeloaders! It's so demotivating to see them get away with not doing anything while I put in so much effort and get nothing in response."

The reason my former boss had reacted like an overprotective mother was because the complaining students had made me look like someone who motivated through bullying, intimidation and fear. He takes his responsibilities of creating a safe space for students to learn and overcome their insecurities very seriously, and I respect that. Meanwhile, I have high expectations of my students precisely because I believe they are capable of so much more than they give themselves credit for, and he now understands and respects that, and has given me some pointers in how to get that across in ways that Swedes aren't allergic to. So we resolved our issues too.

But yeah, that was a pretty strong culture clash; in the end it was educational for everyone involved I think.