Yes, this guy that operates "The personal blog of Michele in California" and has basically her entire HN profile dedicated to the fact that she's a woman.
I don't consider myself a feminist by any stretch, and I'm a pretty conservative person generally (certainly more conservative than most of HN). But Jesus Christ, the definition of "guy" is literally "a man." Let's not start this "I didn't mean the actual definition of the word when I said it" trope.
And I didn't say gender had anything to do with harassment. We're discussing the article, which happens to be written by a woman.
It's not incorrect. Guy does mean "a man." Gal means "a woman." Those are their uses today. They are as gendered as "man".
And just so I can get really pedantic: gender is inferred as a context of speech. If you are calling a cis-woman "guy" or "dude", it is inferred you are speaking colloquially. If you call a transwoman "guy" or "dude", it is inferred [by the subject] that you are mis-gendering them, and is offensive.
And more to the point of the context of the (now-deleted) comment: if you say "guy", "he", "him", and "dude" all about the same subject, you are calling the subject a man. You can't argue your way around blatantly misgendering someone multiple times.
Linguistically, "man" is still gender neutral in many contexts and even any dictionary recognizes this. Oxford, Cambridge, take your pick! Usually cited as #2 or #3 in the list of definitions.
>If you call a transwoman "guy" or "dude", it is inferred [by the subject] that you are mis-gendering them, and is offensive.
To 'some' and I prefer that 'some' do not speak for 'all'. In case I need an example: I do not take offense at this. I prefer people continue to use whatever gendered pronoun they're more comfortable with. I don't need or seek their validation and I'm not so fragile that their choice of word bothers me.
That's the thing about language though. It is because you choose it to be so. Other people choose for 'guys' and 'dude' to have a different meaning.
Collectively we decide who wins. Nobody is right or wrong in the present because it's a never-ending battle over an idea. Words change over time - always have and always will.
You can only be right historically in context. 'Guy', _historically_, does not mean 'man'. What it means now is your interpretation. You should not get so bent out of shape because other people disagree with you.
There is an inherent problem with basing gender-politics around the meanings of words. How do you deal with people coming from languages that do not have gendered pronouns that are trying to translate their language into English? Do you beat them over the head for how wrong they are (before you say no, I've seen it countless times)?
Also hey, guess what. 'He' has seen use as a gender-neutral pronoun well into the 1960s.
When I was at my first job when I was 16, I had a female manager. I didn't think anything of it. Well, she had a thing for tall men (and high school boys). I wanted nothing of it.
So when she laid it on thick, I told her I appreciated the attention and compliments, but I want to be single for the time being. She didn't quit.
Well, she did it around the district manager. Fired on the spot.