Putting yourself first isn't a bad thing, especially where bread and butter is involved. Might I suggest dual licensing with a provision for free-to-use in non-commercial projects? Something similar to QT.
Where did you get the idea that putting yourself first is a bad thing in my comment? I didn't mean that. What I was trying to say that you can pick any of this. At the end of the day you're the one who did the job, so it is up to you to decide what to do with it.